Week 64–Press Forward

Hey y’all
So this week was a little bit slower than last week but overall good. Tuesday was a really good day, I went on exchanges with Elder Reichdan (he’s training right now) and I went to his area. It was a really good time. We had some really good lessons and we also were able to make a video in that time (you can see it in the album). Something that I really enjoyed that Elder Reichdan did really well is that he just integrates his personality really well with who he is as a missionary. It’s pretty funny.

Wednesday was district council which was good. We talked about foreordination and Elder Reichdan helped with part of it. I had assigned him to come up with an activity especially since he really wanted to talk about divine destiny. What he came up with was a lot of fun. Basically we got to roll dice and make decisions for a person we all created together and we basically were their agency. It was pretty funny to see what challenges our person had to face and then we came up with two solutions and then rolled a dice to see if it was good or bad or if it was in the middle of the two. Fun times.

Thursday I had another exchange with Elder Fisi’iahi. That was good. He goes home at the end of the transfer so we talked about what he had learned and some tips he might have. He also did a really great job with teaching Marcus and doing an object lesson I hasn’t seen before. Thursday was also interviews with President Auna. The interview was good we talked about what I could do to help Elder King, District councils and how I want to improve until the next interview. President asked if I wanted him to come to my next district council. I don’t remember exactly what I said but essentially it was to the effect of “Sure if you’d like to.”

I also had to translate for a baptismal interview which was hard. Especially because the baptismal candidate would just talk and talk and wouldn’t let me translate so I had to do my best after 3 to 5 minutes to summarize and it was just a mess. Ugh I’m frustrated because it could have gone so much better if I had just had interrupted or mention that I need time to translate.

Friday we had service and visited Jadid again. It was a good time and Jadid (member) came to church. Saturday we got to do some service where we put rat deterant under a trailer home… It was pretty interesting I have a video. Then Sunday we just had church and a bunch of meetings. So nothing too crazy. No new friends and no lessons with any friends in the area… It’s frustrating. We did have lessons with Lucía and Raquel in Colombia and Panama respectively, and they both continue to be ready for baptism… Just have to wait for their countries to open up.

Questions –

Share something that brought you joy over the last week. – Exchanges were a lot of fun. We had a good time and I was able to get to know my district members better

What is spring season like in Washington? – Nice. More sunny and less rainy and very very green.

What have you learned about yourself during your service as a district leader? – I think my ability to listen has improved a bit especially for those who have a concern.

What personal goal are you working on right now? – It’s one Elder Knowlton came up with which is 3 compliments to myself in the morning haha. But also I’m just trying to control my words better. Becuase sometimes I just want to rip into people for the things they do. More on that at the end

How have you felt the love of the Lord for someone else this week?- I felt the love of the Lord this week for President Auna. He’s got a lot on his plate and he’s doing the best he can everyday and missionaries hate him for it. It’s really sad honestly. I also felt it for Elder Reichdan… the Lord loves him.

Love y’all
Elder Tonkinson
https://eldertonkinson.home.blog/

Week 63- Successes!

Hello all!
So this week was filled with a number of successes and blessings which I am so grateful for. The first success I would say is that there were a lot of lessons this week. It was awesome to have that because it kept us relatively busy and doing something other than Facebook finding or messaging people. Another major success and thing that made me so happy was that we got to meet with two awesome members who have been inactive because of the pandemic. One was Moroni who we texted Saturday night and he said he could meet in an hour and so we did and we invited him to church and he said he served a mission and wanted to help out in lessons. Anyways it was great and he did come to church and he got introduced to everyone and then the Elders Quorum president, Hermano Cruz invited him over for lunch and then the zoom Elders Quorum meeting. It was awesome! The other was Jadid. He’s a genius, a techy, a minimalist and love Star Wars so it was really easy to connect with him. But seriously he is so smart, he knows 5 languages, had a degree in architecture, mechanical engineering and taught himself computer science. He also is an investor and we’ll yeah he had a lot to say about how little most missionaries know about money and investing and was quite impressed with us and our knowledge and Elder Kings steps to invest. So it was awesome. He also came to Elders Quorum and shared how he had gone inactive and had been ignoring the texts of the missionaries and had for some reason just decided to accept our invitation to meet. But we’ll be meeting with Moroni and Jadid again next week and I think they maybe already 2 of my favorite members. Oh also Jadid has light sabers, so I have a picture with one. Miracle or blessing number 3 was Leonardo. He just showed up to church yesterday at the time of the branch and didn’t even know what time we started or anything and he’s not a member. So we got his number and if he responds hopefully we can start teaching him.

So those were some of the highlights this week that were definely blessings from the Lord. Another really awesome thing was I had an exchange with Elder Steck and it was super fun and just good. He’s a really hard worker and had some really good ideas for teaching and just good understanding of things. Like we had a lesson with Raquel from Panama and he doesn’t speak Spanish so during planning he was like what can I do? And so we thought and we knew that even if he didn’t understand because we had planned he would know generally what to say and would bear his testimony and I would translate. So that’s what we did and the spirit was so powerful and Raquel started to cry it was really cool to see that the spirit can touch the heart even if you don’t understand their words. Oh also on exchanges over a zoom call I got to do my first baptismal interview with the now new member Neal. It was a really cool experience to be apart of it and to feel his testimony.

But yeah that’s about it for highlights this week. We did a lot of service and helped move someone on Saturday and district council was outside again and the weather was good. But really not too much more to comment on haha

Questions – If you have any strong preferences on any amenities it would be a good time to let me know. When do we have to contact BYU about fall semester? I think it must be soon.- Like a gym or what ever? I mean a dishwasher would be nice but not like a must and I don’t know anything about Alpine but I definely don’t care about a pool or not. And I don’t know what you mean about contacting about fall semester.

What do you usually do for breakfast in the mornings? – 2 eggs and 2 atrios of bacon, yogurt and Granola or overnight chocolate PB oats

Now that things are starting to open up a little bit has that helped you connect with people in your ward more?- A little but some don’t answer but still it helps

What has been your biggest challenge this week? And what have you learned from it? – Um my companion and I learned that I can pray for strength and help and it’ll come.

How has your scripture study changed while serving a mission?- Um it’s a lot more about seeing what could be used to teach something rather than just reading.

Some of these pictures are pictures Landon (previously Elder Eatough) was in when he came to visit like a week ago.

Love you all ❤️❤️❤️
Elder Tonkinson
https://eldertonkinson.home.blog/

Re: Week 62 – His way is the High Way

Hey family(and friends who will probably read this a week after it’s sent)! [Virtually unedited so I could get this out],
So this week was a pretty good one. This whole week has just been filled with things that made my nerdy side just have some time to come out and be all excited. So Monday night I got a call, like he called me from a guy names Jorge. He’s a sweet guy and has some learning disabilities but as evident by his Facebook page he loves, loves, loves talking to missionaries. So it was a fun little call and he set up another one with me for next Monday night. But seriously it was a fun time and he had and incredible memory like he remembered the exact day and time he had messaged me which was back at the end of January. So that was cool, then we went over to the Latamirs. They are a super cool English couple who are in the branch. They are just a lot of fun and brother Latamirs is a big Star Wars fan. Like he has a little Droid from Galaxy’s Edge, a custom lightsaber from Galaxy’s Edge (which is surprisingly hefty and made out of metal, very impressed Disney) and all the colored kyber crystles to make it what ever color they want. So yeah that was a really fun time. Tuesday wasn’t too crazy we just helped the old Branch President move out of his house and loaded up the moving truck and had a couple lessons. Wednesday was district council which was a good time. I definitely feel like I have gotten better at them but not perfect. But this last time the discussion was on Virtue, the idea being that being virtuous is putting away temptation that distracts you from your deepest desires. Like if my deepest desire is to lose weight I need to put off the temptation to eat a whole cake and sit around all day. It was a good discussion.

Elder King and I also before district council picked up a candle (he wasn’t a huge fan of any of the scents I had which obviously I am) , which we can’t burn… But we do have a wax melter, so we put the candle in boiling water and melted the wax down and poured it into the wax containers I had to mold them. Sometimes the way was too hot and it melted the plastic so it shriveled up quite a bit, but it was at the same time a fun time. Thursday was exchange day and also Zone Conference. Zone Conference was on repentance which I thought was awesome, some were worried we were going to get rebuked for something but I just thought it was a great discussion. Anyways that’s where I get my title for this week. Elder Steck who is a member of my district, was talking about how Christ loves us but expects a lot from us but said, “It’s not His way or the highway, but he shows us that His Way is the High Way” and I really loved that so I wrote it down and now shared it with all of you. But it’s true. God loves us and sent Christ to show us the way and He leads by example, so when we’re asked to repent it’s not to drag us down but pull us up to where He is. So again that was great and after I had an exchange with Elder Larsen, who is just over a week in the mission, but he is already off to a great start. He is super knowledgeable and teaches well and he’s also into programming and computer science so it was a lot of fun to talk to him and the lessons we taught together were really good too. Friday we did a bunch of service and studies.

Saturday we had another awesome lesson with a family. So we thought that we were going over to Hermana Salazar’S house and we did, but Elder King knew she lived with her daughters family, well we roll up and it turns out she has two daughters and the other one had just moved in as well (like a month) from Maryland and so there were like 15 people we got to talk to and teach. It was a really cool time to feel like I was teaching a ton of people and everyone was pretty engaged. We just talked about Elder Soares Seek Christ in Every Thought and did and object lesson with magnets. Then before and a bit after we were talking well to the whole family. I talked to Hermana Salazar for a bit about a mission (also she was the only one there who needed the Spanish and the kids only speak a little Spanish so we had to basically do the lesson twice) anyways it was fun to talk to her and get to know her story on coming into the church and then Elder King was talking to Antonio who is the son in law who just moved there about all types of stuff. So Antonio had a really cool conversion story and he also was a mechanical engineer (he move to WA to join his brother in laws, law firm) and so he was telling us how he’s made model guns from Star Wars and metal casted helmets and all these cool things and it was just another great nerd moment and it was great. So yeah that was this week haha.

Questions-

What was one of the highlights of your week? – Probably at service on Friday. So we were serving and an Elder took Elder Riechdan’s tag and hid it in his back pocket. And Elder Riechdan wasn’t going to go grab it out of the back pocket especially since we were out at the food bank filling cars non-stop with boxes and the sisters from the district was there. Anyways so we just kept handing the tag around and putting it in our back pockets and so I eventually put mine in my back pocket and then he accused me of having it (which I ddi at one point) and then he accused Elder King’s key card to the hotel as being his tag. It was just funny. Anyways eventually it gets to Elder Halvorsen who puts it on right under his tag. So it’s pretty visible on him and for 20 minutes Elder Reichdan doesn’t notice. This includes him even taking pictures with us and I’m pretty sure he looked squarely at Elder Halvorsen tag once and didn’t notice his own right there. It was a pretty funny time and Elder Reichdan luckily is a good sport

What is the best thing about living in a hotel? – Probably the gym. It’s really nice

Share a tender Mercy from the Lord from your week – Hmm probably when Elder Larsen and I taught Marcus and he got excited about learning about miracles.

How have you felt the Love of the Lord in your life this week? – Through my district, they’re just awesome

Share a time you have felt the Love He has for others. – Probably when I taught Jorge and realizing how much he must love Him for how much he loves the missionaries and the church

I love you all!
Elder Tonkinson
https://eldertonkinson.home.blog/

Week 61 – The Suite Life

Hey!
This week was alright. As I mentioned the rumors were true I am in a hotel suite with Elder King. Monday night was good we finished the night with a meeting for Elder Elison to be trained as a district leader which was pretty alright and then we finished by messaging people. Tuesday is when Elder King and I became companions. The hotel is really nice, it’s got a gym, queen sized beds, plenty of room for my stuff and all that. But I can’t imagine how much it’s costing to keep missionaries in there. Unfortunately, the only thing it is missing is an oven, but it does have a grill so grill pizzas? Maybe idk sounds like a good idea to me.

Tuesday was mostly just getting moved into the room. Wednesday was good as well. We had district council which still being district leader I lead. We talked about faith and it was really good. I like my new district. Definely a different dynamic but good. It consists of Elder Fisi’iahi, Elder Halvorsen, Elder Steck, Elder Knowlton, Elder Reichden, Elder Larsen, Sister Crookston and Sister Erikson. But yeha a good district. Then that night we visited the Branch Mission leader at the time Hermano Neri who is pretty awesome. It was a really good conversation and it seems like the branch is pretty involved in missionary work. Thursday I got to meet one of our friends Nelly. She’s 17 and we just talked to her about the Book of Mormon for a bit and Hermana Galvan joined in on the zoom call, which is, unfortunately, only about the third time I’ve had a member present a lesson. We also had a couple other lessons on Thurday which was nice so we had a busy day.

Friday we did a lot of service which was awesome because most of it is also with the district and it gave us a lot to do. Saturday we had ZLC and basically Elder Hatch got moved her with me so we’re gonna keep up basically ArMargeddon but calling it FEverWood because we are in the Everett Lynwood or EverWood zone. Then we got to meet the Sierras who gave us food to take. They’re pretty awesome and they have a little 5 year old named Sofia who is awesome. She’s got an incredible memory, loves misionaries and Star Wars so it was really fun to talk and teach her in Spanish.

Sunday was pretty chill. We got to watch the branch presidency be reorganized and well Hermano Sierra is now Presidente Sierra and Hermano Neri his now his first council, Hermano Perez is is second councilor and Hermano Cruz is the new Elders Quorum President. Hermano Cruz decided to give us food to take out but we ended up staying in his house with the other Elders in the branch, Elder Boren and Elder Smith and we just had a great conversation on ideas on how the branch can better help us. So yeah, this branch is awesomely mission work minded and I’m excited. Unfortunately the area I’m in has not had a ton going on, for various reasons so I’m going to be back on the messaging people grind for a bit but if all goes to plan I could be teaching a lot do referalls. I’m overall excited to be in the new branch and have the change. Anyways I hope and pray this next week will be greater than this one even though over all this last one was great.

Questions –

Tell us about your new companion and share something you admire about him. – See above mostly. He was trained by Elder Durbano and I knew him in his training. I admire the relationship that he has made with the members here

Share some details about your new area and how the work is going there. – Slow yeah. It needs a pick me up right now and so does Elder King

Just out of curiosity how much baggage did you have when you moved? – Not tons. Contacts and tolietries and inhalers take up a decent but of space, and so does study stuff. I could fit all my stuff into my suitcases except my bedding and 2 week food supply

Share a favorite scripture from your recent scripture study and how that scripture is Changing you are becoming. – Hmmm… That’s a great question. A scripture not exactly but I have studied recently how important is to change our thoughts
So my goal this week is to talk back to negative or criticizing thoughts

Favorite moment of the past week. – Talking to Sofia about Star Wars krn the conversation with Hermano Cruz Sunday night

Oh just in case I forgot to share we can now meet in members homes so yes!!! Things are improving in getting to be able to balance online and in person work.

Love you all!
Elder Tonkinson
https://eldertonkinson.home.blog/

Week 60- FUN

Hey y’all this week was just a blast. It was so so busy and just a ton of fun. Literally, there really wasn’t ever a dull moment.

Monday night we were pretty busy and then just all week we had a ton, and I mean a ton, of lessons planned. If all of them had happened we would have had about 35. It was really insane. Unfortunately, a decent number canceled on us, so we ended up having 24 lessons. That was still a decent number though. Friday was our craziest day. We had 9 lessons planned. Unfortunately, five of them fell through. But still, it was a really cool thing to see that many lessons. So yeah the work was popping this week.

We didn’t quite make new friends this week but the branch may have four baptisms next week. Elian, Perla’s daughter, is on date for March 6th, the two nieces of Hermana Mora come this week so possible two more and then a woman named Anayeli is on date for March 20th in the Arlington half. But she’s a little tough, as the Arlington Elders haven’t been the ones teaching her, but other Elders who used to serve here who are friends with her are. So yeah interesting.

Tomorrow is transfers so I will be out of here. I actually already know who and where I am going to. I am headed to Everett and will be with Elder K, Elder Durbano’s trainee. It’ll be a shake up for sure. This is my first move since coming back and I will be going from an apartment to a suite in a hotel. That’s right free, breakfast and a gym (gotta look at the bright side). Also, I realized I have now lived in Marysville longer than I lived in Florida or maybe about the same, but unlike Florida I haven’t left ever for a vacation haha.

Fun highlights from this week I guess are we came up with a game for all the Legos we have. So, Lego now has some guns that actually shoot. Yeah, so we used those to shoot some minifigs and came up with some rules for that. Pretty fun.

In person lessons can now happen again, so we went to the Mora’s and well they unavoidably fed us. It was a good time, and they will be missed. I will actually miss this whole branch. This week we also did beachbody 22 minute hard corps work out this week… That was hard. Elder Elison got it from his parents when he first got reassigned here, and it kicked our butts, but it was also a good work out. Hmm, oh, we got to serve at Cascade Park, a church owned park and got to finish some benches that was kinda fun. Oh, also, lots of cooking, like probably the most I have done with my comps and some just good food. We had gyros, cinnamon rolls, steaks (tonight), homemade bread; yeah, lots of fun. Oh, we also almost every night stayed up talking until like midnight haha.

Spiritual thing is this week, we taught the Restoration which is not a frequent thing honestly these days, and it was powerful. We read the Joseph Smith Story again and the spirit just hit me and was like, “Hey remember this? Yeah it’s still true” It was pretty awesome. But yeah so I’ve got some packing to do so let’s get to questions.

Questions-
How is it going to have three Missionaries in the apartment and companionship? – Awesome I love it. Wish it would kinda not end.

Share highlights of your teaching and lessons week. – Just a packed week. I guess Elian filled out most of her baptismal form and stuff so that was good.

What have you learned about yourself during the Past year and do those new insights change your goals for the Future plans? – Hmm I have learned that I can be happy even in a tough situation. Not that I am never not frustrated, but that I overall am happy. Also that there are still things to be done in quarantine life, and it’s not all that bad. Oh and I can adjust a little bit better than I thought

Share something you’ve learned from one of your companions this week. – Elder Elison is a really great teacher and he also has a lot of good ideas on how to lead.

Share a favorite scripture from your study this week and why you chose it. – HMMMMMMMMM – “And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness:” Genesis 1:26 just a good solid one about how we are all like unto God and that we are His children

Do you have any request for housing in the fall? Are you hoping to room with anyone At this point in time? –
Nope I am fine with anyone I guess. I’ll put down my ideas and I’ll add a number next to them out of 10 of how important they are 1 being low and 10 being high.

Ethernet – 7
Close to campus – 10
Laundry mat in complex – 8
4 people to an apartment – 9
Gym – 5
Generally nice/newish (you know how I am) – 7
2 bathrooms – 6
Idk what else haha… More open layout? – 4

Elder Tonkinson
https://eldertonkinson.home.blog/

Oh P. S. I have extended my mission to August 9th…. Sooo yeah

Week 59- Another trio

Hey everyone
Yup, that’s right; I am in a trio again! It’s super exciting. Anyways, I’ll get to that. This week was pretty full of things, especially this weekend. So Tuesday, I went on exchanges with Elder Christensen, which is the last one I have to do for this transfer. It was pretty fun. I went to his area, and we had a good day. He’s on bike, and we had 2 lessons in person. The first was with one of their ward missionaries who met with us outside on his patio which over looks the bay which was pretty cool. He also insisted on feeding us, so we had some pizza which was also pretty good. The craziest thing was that he gave us 21 referals. 21! Our goal as a zone for the month was to get 25 total. Most were part members families but it was still a really cool experience. Then, we biked even further into the reservation about 10 miles in and met with some other members who game us 2 referrals, so 23 in one day.

Elder Mendoza and Elder Castillo came by after that lesson and took us home as it was getting dark, and there we no lights on the reservation. Then we had a quick dinner followed by a lesson and then dropped off some brownies and had to bike another 6 miles or so to do it haha. Good time though.

Wednesday was the normal district council, and then we had some lessons. Thursdays I got to go over a parable with Drew and we had a lesson with Perla and Elian and well… Elian accepted a baptismal date! She is on date to be baptized March 6th. I’m pretty excited about that. Unfortunately, seeing as transfers are next Tuesday I don’t think I’ll be here for it, so I’ll watch it over zoom. Which is tough. But still, it’s not about me, it’s about her and it is exciting to see.

Friday was a little crazy. We got a call from the assistents, Elder Pratt and Elder Herbst and they’re like, “Hey Elders you wouldn’t mind covering all of the branch and getting a 3rd companion would you?” So it turns out Elder Kleven is going back to Mexico February 23rd and was late for his 14 day quarantine by 4 days and they had just found out. So Elder Elison, Elder Kleven, Elder Castillo, and I all went to Mod Pizza to eat together and say goodbye to Elder Kleven.

Funny story when I was paying a member pushed me out of the way and payed for all of us. Like she physically pushed me aside haha. So we ate with them and then the assistants dropped in and took Elder Kleven at 7 from our apt. We found out then that we would probably be together until next transfer even though they had told Elder Elison “a couple days” so he had only bought a couple stuff with him. Well bad news was… Saturday and Sunday we were snowed in. So we couldn’t go get his stuff.

Saturday, we ended up having to walk to Walmart to pick up a headset for Elder Castillo to translate Stake Conference [meeting held twice a year for all members of the Stake. A stake is generally made up of 7 to 12 congregations,] for all 4 sessions (with some other people so not just him). We were luckily able to do it remotely from our apt but yeah that was a 2 hour walk, that we took lunch and our walk times for because it was a needed thing for him to translate. He did a great job though.

Sunday we had Stake Conference from 8-12 because of a special Spanish meeting from 8-9:30. It was fun. Elder Castillo translated and Elder Elison and I turned into Italian pasta-making grandma’s. I had told the district I would make them pasta so while we watched we made some pasta, and it was really good in the end. It took a lot of work and effort but it was also fun. It was surprisingly physically exerting to roll out as much pasta as we did.

After Stake Conference, Elder Glazier, Tolman, Christensen and Mendoza came by and ate it and then left. Elder Hatch and Elder Young were too far away to walk but I dried some pasta and saved a decent bit of the sauce and cheese (some fresh motzerella and riccotta) so we can have them stop by and eat it some day this week. It was a lot of fun and it was crazy to see all that hard work eaten so quick haha. Hand made pasta is worth it in small quantities but maybe not in larger ones, especially when it’s all hand made and you don’t have a roller.

Last night most of our lessons fell through. Though I did have on with Carson on the parable of the talents which was good. Thanks to our lessons falling through though, we did get to make a video to “hype up” the Spanish missionaries. We’re going to be doing a page completion, and so we made a little video that took 2 hours to make that just says how we’re going to beat all other pages, but it’s in a little Lego video. I’ll send it haha. Then today was good we went up to Arlington and got a bit of Elder Elison’s things and then played spikeball and football in the snow. Elder Hatch bought and threw a fish at me for always doing a “dead fish” hit in spikeball. Luckily Elder Elison knows how to filet a fish, and we took it home and cooked it up. It was pretty good. And now I’m siting here typing. Though as soon as I finish I’m gonna get started on cinnamon rolls, because, why not?

Questions –

Any changes on the phases in your mission? Are you still in phase one as a mission. – Unfortunately no

Favorite teaching moment from the week? – Elian being put on date and being excited about it

Share something from your scripture study that you’ve learned this week. – I studied the Pearl of Great Price… Yeah, that was interesting. I definitely have a lot better understanding of why we have it and need it and what it adds, especially in relation to the premortal life.

Last week you dazzled us with pasta homemade cake. Have you tried anything new this week? – I made bread but I forgot to take pictures, and it was gone so quick. It unfortunately was a little more cakey, so this week I bought bread flour, and I have two packets of yeast, so one will go into bread and the other into the cinnamon rolls. We bought steaks, so I’ll probably make it the day we have that.

What’s the latest on you companion possibly going back to Brazil? – Nada

I love you all!
Elder Tonkinson
https://eldertonkinson.home.blog/

Week 58 – A little brighter

Hello there!
This week was pretty good and decently packed full of things which was nice. Monday night, we finished off with a lesson with Katie Ownby which was good. It’s been really awesome to help her to teach her friend by going over the questions she has. And it’s been cool to see Katie’s testimony strengthen, and she’s a beast and will be a great missionary in a couple years when she can go serve. Then, we finished and watched the mission devotional we missed. But seriously it was a good way to end the day.

Tuesday I went on an exchange with Elder Young the new zone leader this transfer. Unfortunately, all the lessons fell through in their area but we still had a good time and a good discussion on what we could do to help the missionaries we are over which was a really good way to use that time I thought. So that was a lot of fun, and we also got an awesome member meal. So there are two companionships in the ward the zone leaders are in so multiply this by two, a whole rotisserie chicken, a bag of avocado toast salad (which was great), Hawaiian rolls, cantaloupe and a lemon cake (which was pretty lemony and I was impressed). So thank you to those members; it was great. We got to eat in seperate rooms with the door open with Elder Stepen and Oakeson the other two elders from Lake Stevens so that was good.

Yeah then Wednesday, we had the usual, service and then district council. District council was good, and we even had it outside which was great. Like awesome, the sun was shining and it was pretty warm. So we loved that. Thursday we had some good lessons, and it was a pretty chill day; and then Friday I had another exchange with Elder Glazier and this time I went to his area. That was good we had 3 lessons and were able to get 2 refferalls of people to teach and that was of course fantastic. Who wouldn’t want to teach more people about what could bring them lasting joy? So that was a good day too.

Saturday was a pretty packed day and I got to have a lesson with my best friends which was also great. Drew, Luke and Carson all were super happy to talk, and we decided we’re going to call every Wednesday and go over a parable and catch up. It’s great. I also had a lesson with my friend Anne-Elaine as well. She’s really come a long way and seems to be a lot more religious than she was before my mission which is really awesome. Oh I guess Elder Castillo on Friday met with Perla and Elian. Perla was good; she got her temple recommend, and Elian said she wants to be baptized which is great.

Sunday we had a good time at church and we started having a 30 minute Sunday school this week which was great. Hermana Mora said we’re going to try to meet with her two nieces from Mexico and help get them read for baptism. They can’t be baptized in Mexico only because there are no missionaries there currently. I am not complaining, and I’m excited to be able to start that. So that was the week. It was good. Oh I guess no word on Elder Castillo leaving but a bunch of missionaries are starting to, so I may not have to be in quarantine with Elder Castillo when he does leave. Then Elder Kleven my first comp when I came back is leaving to Mexico soon. He is actually in SLC today getting his visa figured out. Very cool stuff.

Questions-

What have you learned about yourself in the last few weeks? – Patience is something that is still needing improvement. That’ll be a very good skill for the rest of my life so might as well start learning more of it now right?

In what way have you built up personal resilience during your mission and the pandemic? – Just having to learn how to stay productive especially when it is easier and more enjoyable to sleep or read all day.

Share something that’s made you laugh this week. – Hmm at district council we had a roast/compliment time to help promote district unity. It was funny

Is there something that you’ve learned from your companion or another missionary in the past week or two?- How to correct better from Elder Young. It’s not easy and unfortunately sometimes dispite your best efforts you may not be liked.

What is one of your favorite principles of the Gospel of Jesus Christ to teach? – Repentance because it brings peace and joy.

This week I tried my hand at Ice Cream Cake Bars (I made my own fo-ice cream from making whipped cream and mixing sweetened condensed milk and mixed it with Texas sheet cake, let that freeze and then cut it and dipped them. [These are a very Tonkinson thing. They are a blend of cake and ice cream, frozen and dipped in chocolate. Most of us love to mix cake and ice cream at birthdays, and this is just a more sophisticated way to do that] The district liked them. And then I also made pasta yesterday which was really good and worth the effort I think haha.

Elder Tonkinson
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Week 57- I got blocked on Facebook

Hello hello wonderful family [I think he must have confused us with some other family]

Well let’s just get right into it. Monday night was a fantastic way to end an already good P-day. We had 4 lessons and a Spanish page meeting. It was kinda crazy to fit that in to the last 3 hours of the day but really satisfying to have had that much to do.

Tuesday institute [a college level religion class] was fantastic. We’re still talking about world religions and this week was Buddisma and Hinduism, which I was surprised by how similar some beliefs or principles were. This again kinda reaffirmed that God will reveal light and truth to all men and that just like President Hinckley said, “Come with what you have and let us see if we can add to it.” What a wonderful principle. The Church doesn’t have a monopoly on truth but we do have the largest collection of it. I just love that, because we can really relate to all people because in part what they have has been given them by the exact same God.

Tuesday afternoon, we had Zone Conference which was on focusing on working with the Ward/Branch at this time. Using ministers and members to be able to do what we can’t, like drop by in person, and to fellowship those who have stopped coming back into the branch and making sure that they know they are needed and wanted. I thought it was really good and perfect because as a ZLC [Zone Leadership Council], we decided that our goal this next month will be focused on getting more member lessons and refferals. We had to rush back from Zone Conference to get back for our lessons which again felt so good to be busy.

Wednesday was crazy as always, having service in the morning then a lesson during service and then district council. District council was good. It was focused on comp unity, and we brainstormed ideas on how we can help grow that and the blessings that will come from it. It was really interesting because it was not a district council theme that I thought was super needed; but from what I heard afterwards, Elder Tolman and Mendoza both thought it was perfect. So that was really good to know that the Spirit had lead me to that subject (well and some help from Elder Tolman when I was planning saying he thought it was great). Thursday we had a lesson with Perla and her 15 year old daughter, Elian. It was over the Plan of Salvation. Elian had some really good questions and concerns, and I honestly could say that she seems to have a very strong urge to be spiritual and religious at that age, which I find impressive for someone who is not super religious now. She actually seeks diligently and reads the Book of Mormon and prays. She also said that she wants to be baptized; she’s just not sure if she’s ready or a 100 % sure, so we’re going to keep working with her. She’s awesome though.

Friday, I had an exchange with Elder Mendoza. It was awesome. We had some really good conversations on missionary work online, what he had found that had worked and some other things. It was really good. I learned a lot, and we worked hard. It was nice to have him there as well for some Spanish lessons because well he speaks it well, because his parents are from Peru and because he hopes to be able to go to his original assignment in Chile soon. He was happy to be able to practice in Spanish. Oh, then I was messaging someone who I had friend requested from here in Marysville. So she added me back and said “Do I know you?” I said, “No I’m sorry if that’s a problem” or something like that and she said, “No you’re kinda cute” and I was like no sir! I am a missionary so I quickly got to talking about being one after some small talk. I just asked if it was fine if I asked some religious questions she said yes and then… I saw, “this person is no longer available on messenger [but in Spanish]” and we’ll I was blocked. Hahaha. I freaked out and pushed too quick to religion which does not work in messenger but perfectly at the door. Good learning experience though. So yeah that was fun and a super successful exchange.

Oh Thursday, Elder Castillo got word that he should be going back to Brazil in the next 3-5 weeks! He’s expecting to get an exact date later this week. Depending on when that is, I could be in 2 week hard isolation this week or before the transfer is over. That means no leaving the apt at all. Not for church or walks or anything… I am not looking forward to that, but I am excited for him.

Saturday we had some good lessons and were busy and then finished off with ArMargeddon. We won the zone challenge, so today Elder Hatch who has about $300 in MSF (Missionary Funds) is going to buy us the winning district Chick-fil-A. Note, he has that much because members feed them every day, and they have hotel breakfast. So they just buy snacks and water and eat leftovers for lunch. Super grateful for that though. Then, yesterday was good, not too many at church, and we’re not sure why but we’re going to work on encouraging more people to come to church. Then accounting last night was super fun as always. Easily the best part of being a district leader, just being able to see other missionaries make changes and help with that.

Questions-
Did you finish cutting your hair? – I finished it last week, I just didn’t need to cut any off the top mom 😛

How have you seen the hand of the Lord in your life this week? – Just being able to start messaging more people online and then having a lot of lessons was nice

Something from your personal study share an insight or an aha moment moment you’ve had recently? Or just a favorite verse of Scripture – Um I have been listening to conference talks this week from Oct. 2003 and April 2004 and those have been really good. An insight I guess has been that at Zone Conference we talked about always making sure we face the Lord and how we need to have a high amount of love and high expectations for our companion. It was just good to think how I can work to have those and encourage those around me to be better without being annoying or being self righteous

From last week’s report you indicated that having trouble with participation and following through on assignments for devotionals and other work. has that improved this week? And if so what do you think it should be attribute the improvements from? – Yeah, that has improved by doing a different type of Preassignment where I just asked them to come up with suggestions for how to improve comp unity and then discussing them.

Also from your letter last week you indicated you and your companion struggle with getting distracted easily but we’re working on it. What have you found to help this week.? – Um, just putting the phone down for a bit when I see I’m getting distracted and then reading more in free time.

Pictures- Made some Texas sheet cake this week and Elder Castillo made some bomb green salsa. I also got some free real maple syrup from the food bank (I asked) which was a steal!

Love y’all!
Elder Tonkinson
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Week 56- I need a nap

As is potentially apparent, I have been fairly tired this week. Just wishing we could go out and knock doors and visit in person really bad this week. However, other than that it was a good week.

Tuesday, we had a pretty packed day and had a couple good lessons, Wednesday was also packed because of service and district council. District council this week was on the importance of studying. I thought it went alright, but there is always room for improvement. I learned a couple new study ideas that may make studying easier when it’s harder to focus. So I would call it a success for me.

After district council, Elder Glazier needed to go to the doctor down in Everett so we dropped him off, and Elder Castillo, Tolman and I got Ray’s fries, burgers and shakes… Well I got a shake, Elder Castillo and I shared a thing of fries, and Elder Tolman got a combo with a burger, fries and drink. It was pretty good. We also took some time to do some calling to ask President Auna for permission to teach Elder Castillos family members, and we also got permission to get the COVID vaccine. Because we work at the food bank, we are eligible to get it, which will be nice. Unfortunately, besides protection, there is no immediate payoff. Despite it, we still won’t be able to visit families in person or take off the mask… But hey it’s a step in the right direction.

Let’s see, Thursday I had an exchange with Elder Tolman. It was pretty fun. We had four lessons if I remember correctly. It was pretty good. We spent our dinner and walk time together and just went out and walked in Jennings Park and talked about all that had changed in the mission, what we could do better to be happier and more productive. I loved it. Moments like that when I just get to know what people actually think and are struggling with and working with them is why I love being a district leader.

Thursday night, Elder Fiske the vehicle Coordinator came and we removed the Tiwi (the little box that tells us if we are speeding or driving too aggressively) because Friday morning, we went down to Everett to get our cracked glass fixed. We weren’t allowed to stay in the building, so we just took an hour and a half walk around Everett which was relaxing as well and good for our mental health. It was cool though. We literally were like 100 ft away from our big loop when they called and said it was done. Then, unfortunately, Elder Fiske met up with us again, and we had to put Tiwi back on. Boo.

Saturday we had to finish our picture post, video post and devotionals for the page. They’ve changed how they run the page. So we have content managers (I’m over the devotional so I assign everything and then put it together), but there is very little talk between us so we got assigned to do story Thursday and send in a video and photo post and the normal devotional all this week. So that was frustrating, but we got it all done. Saturday, we had Elder Elison (other Spanish Elder) and Elder Laird came and helped us shoot a part of the video. Then we spent the rest of the day editing it. Oh I guess we had ZLC and the ArMargeddon that night too which was a lot of fun, and we are still winning between the districts. I will say that it has been a success for the zone to get more unity (we do a zone zoom call after) and stuff so that’s good. People this week really slacked on the devotional parts so dispite announcing who does what every Sunday in the chat (it’s also in a Google doc at the beginning of the month [but I am the only one to have filled it out way before hand]) and then multiple reminders through out the week. So unfortunately, the devotional was not done until 12:30 in the middle of church. So, I finished editing on my phone, but it took 30 minutes to export and then I had to upload it to drive and then they posted it. It was stressful. And on top of that, we had moderating Sunday and no one else, dispite the daily notification that it is there by Elder Mejía, had done it for about 250 people (about 2 weeks) . (We message all the new likes on the page) Well after messaging about 100 people, Facebook jailed me for doing so (because we message from our accounts and not as the page) and as of 4:27 today I can message new people on Facebook. Then Elder Castillo also got jailed. So Elder Zalesny and Elder Boren the two page Admins finished up and they’re going to get on people tonight in a meeting for not moderating. Then last night we accounted and I cut my hair.

Overall pretty good week looking back at it. Just hard at some points to feel motivated to get up and do something after a break time. Today has been good. We played spikeball as a district. Kinda. So we have 2 spikeball nets in the district and the church owns a pretty big field behind the church. So 2 companionships played in one corner and 2 in the diagonal corner. Then we would switch between us, thus not breaking COVID laws by only having 4 people and from only 2 households playing together. I think it really helped with district unity. I am praying this week I can be better about finding motivation. Elder Castillo and I have talked about it and we’re both gonna work on not getting so distracted haha.

Questions
How are things going with your new companion? – Good he cooks some, I cook some, like Wednesday we made burgers together for lunch. It was pretty fun and good. He also is just a fun person. Though we both get distracted easily as mention above so we’re working on it.
How are you working to serve him?- I make him breakfast or I bought (well mom and day technically) us Chick-fil-A this week.
What do you admire about him as a missionary? – He’s a good teacher and is very knowledgeable and he is fluent in Spanish. We’re going to try to speak more Spanish together this week
Are you pooling your funds for food and eating together like you and Elder Ray did? – Yup
What have you learned this week about virtual missionary work? – It’s not easy. So many distractions on Facebook, so easy to get frustrated with it, but there is a lot of satisfaction in getting to talk with someone even if it’s not about religion. Plus it allows us to have more lessons in a shorter amount of time, because well no travel, although we all prefer in person
Is a missionary council functioning in the branch with EQ and RS participation? – Well we join branch council every Sunday, but we rarely are asked more than “What can we do for you?” and sometimes not even that. Then after chruch we have a meeting with President Soto where we talk about how many members we visited and friends that they could help with, that’s where the real work is done. Finally we have a missionary coordination meeting with just the branch mission leader which is just the same thing as the meeting with President Soto
What did you share in your district meeting and what is planned for the next one? – See above, this week is going to be on unity. As a companionship and a district, we also have zone Conference tomorrow which should be fun

Love you all, have a good week
Elder Tonkinson
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Week 55- Friends from all over the world

Well this week was pretty good. Tuesday, we started out by having a surprise need for us to serve at the food bank with Elder Chapman and Elder Bates. It was a lot of fun and good for Elder Ray because it was his last time to see them, and they’re some of our good friends in the mission. It was a little sad to see Elder Ray take all his stuff, but hey such is missionary life right? Elder Ray is now in Mt. Vernon with Elder Boyce which should be good. Elder Boyce, from what I have heard, is a really good missionary and hopefully fill in any of my various weak points in training Elder Ray.

I am now with Elder Castillo. He’s pretty cool. He is from San Antonio and actually is cousins and from the same ward as Elder Rodríguez was (he was my companion around this time last year). Elder Castillo started his mission in Brazil and natively speaks Spanish, as both his parents know only some English. It’s pretty cool though because he is fluent in 3 languages, Spanish, English and Portuguese. He reminds me a lot of Noah Kitchen, my good friend from Ohio, which is nice and we’re getting along and having a good time. However, I don’t know how long we will be together. This week, he got an email from the mission office asking for some documentation from Brazil. So we’re thinking, given what they wanted, that he may be going back to Brazil before the end of the transfer.

It’s exciting and a lot of missionaries are starting to get started on heading back out. Elder Zalesny, who was serving here and is one of the Venid a Cristo Page admins, is heading back to Santiago, Chile Feb 4th which is crazy. Many other missionaries who served in Mexico are being asked to fill out visa information. I am excited for them because I know that feeling of being so excited to have that chance to go back. But if he did go back before the end of the transfer I would probably be three packing with Elder Kleven and Elison who cover the other half of the branch. It would be a lot of fun, and depending on Visas both of them could leave pretty soon too (but probably not as soon as Elder Castillo). It sure will be interesting to see how things change over the next few months in the mission with people leaving.

Anyway, other than those things, life is pretty good. We’re meeting with more people lately and we’re having more success online through our zone plan of ArMargeddon. [Ar for Arlinton, Mar for Marysville, the two zones] During this we get together as a zone and find at the same time and try to complete challenges. There are 10 points that we can get each ArMargeddon (every Saturday from 8-9) for our district and whichever district has the most points at the end of the month gets some prize and then everyone should be getting a ArMargeddon sticker. It’s fun and effective because the challenges help us to have more focus in our online efforts.

Speaking of ArMargeddon, during that time I started to message some new people who sent me friend requests which has been cool. One is from Mexico, another Bangladesh and another Nigeria. It’s cool to be able to hear about people’s lives from all around the world and see what’s the same and what is different. Life is good overall dispite the hard bits of social distance because of COVID.

Oh one last thing. My new district (Elders Mendoza, Christensen, Tolman, Glazier, Hatch, Young and Castillo) is really awesome. Wednesday, we had a great discussion in district council on being humble and meek. I learned a lot and it has helped me to know how I can keep working on one of my weakest attributes of Christ. I am grateful for them and all that they bring. I am also grateful that Christ showed us the humility and meekness are not weak attributes to have as the world thinks but are powerful.

Questions-

Tell us about your new companion and share at least one thing you admire about him. – Elder Castillo is pretty cool and I really admire the way that he teaches. It’s just very clear and very to the point. It’s not fancy, but it’s not basic either. He teaches in a way that doesn’t overwhelm people but also doesn’t make it feel like he’s dumbing it down or anything

How have you been inspired to meet the challenge of so many new missionaries in your district? – I am just working on trying to get to know them and talk to them.

What is a goal you are currently working on? – Writing in my journal daily. I’ve never been good at that.

Share an unexpected blessing or growth opportunity you have had while serving a mission. – Um to increase my ability to have Christlike love. I too often judge (still), but being a district leader has expanded my ability to love people even with their struggles and not to judge as much. Again, I am nowhere near perfect, but it’s improving.

The one of the cat is when we went to help Elder Mendoza and Elder Christensen with service. The service we were doing was for the neighbor of a member and the members invited us to have soup and we were like we can if it’s outside. They were like what about our cover patio and I was like that’s fine with doors open… Well we sit down distanced and expecting them to eat seperatly given they were an older couple… Well nope… They sat with us, called us around the table, and shut the doors, essentially turning what was acceptable and outside into an inside space. Haha. They did just get their COVID shots though so we should be fine. It was just like… It was fine and then you all just made it not fine… It just reminded me of how much members really hate not being able to have us over for things and wanting us to be able to do things like the past.

Love you all. Stay safe and healthy.

Elder Tonkinson
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